Posted on Jun 28, 2006 | Comments 0
You need to understand the very important role that relationships play in success, then take a look at your own relationships and think about how you can make them better.
Only Winning relationships are built mainly on trust, joint benefit, confident and stirring attitudes, respect, and thoughtful consideration. Create a win for yourself by choosing positive, incompatible communication rather than negative, incongruent communication and behavior.
When your relationship is good with other people then you solve the some problems in your life. Believing in yourself means believing and trusting your intuition.
True insight helps you to live each moment to the fullest. It is the seed that transforms your life while teaching you how to achieve optimal health.
Life is too short to spend your valuable time trying to convince a person who wants to live in darkness and fate otherwise. And you cannot try to change your relationships with other people who put themselves in the position of being negative.
For example, if you have a friend who, in spite of your help and encouragement, chooses to view life as a desperate problem to be lived, you are well aware of how wearing this friend’s visits can be.
Give lifting that person up your best shot, but don’t hang around long enough for his or her bad attitude to pull you down. Instead, surround yourself with optimistic people.
The following attitudes are winning relationships in your life. Focus on the following attitudes and you’ll build win relationships everywhere.
You need to amplify the important things and reduce the importance of problems that look insuperable. “Don’t make mountains out of molehills” is a wise surveillance that everybody would do well to watch, because it stabilizes relationships.
An attitude with facts (reasons for being optimistic), however, is tremendously rewarding and creative. Attitude is the determining factor in main accomplishments. Fortunately, attitude is something you can control, and in the process, you can build good relationships. Psychologists have maintained for generations that attitudes are more important than facts.
You have the latitude to be all that you can be and accomplish credible objectives. Latitude is a way of saying that you have the freedom to do practically anything within the bounds of human decency and law.
Regardless of your ancestry, the conditions of your youth, and so on, you have the latitude to move from where you are to where you want to be. And when you grant that latitude to others, you strengthen your relationships
Gratitude comes first because the more you express gratitude for what you have, the more you have to express gratitude for. You’ll never find a happy person who isn’t a grateful person, so gratitude is a marvelous place to start. And grateful people are fun to be around.
Every day you face a multitude of challenges and opportunities, but when you concentrate on the challenges, you blank out life’s opportunities.
Focusing on opportunities instead of challenges increases your attractiveness as a friend, family member, or business associate. Just as you can hold a dime close enough to your eye to blank out the sun, when you concentrate on opportunities you blank out the challenges so that you can overcome them.
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