Relationships may build your personal growth. Your relationships may cultivate together or apart because of the priority you do or don’t place on your personal time. Your kids are growing up. You are getting older. Time you could have spent with your family or on your own personal dreams and goals is unique.
How many families have you observed in which there seem to be no shared interests or little interaction or quality time spent together? They’re not a family; they are just roommates.
If you want roommates, find tenants who will pay rent but will not get involved in your business or personal life. Family members should not be treated as nonpaying tenants who just happen to occupy the same house.
Make dinner each evening with your family a commitment. Set an automatic business cutoff time. If you like to work late at the office, then schedule dinner at 6:30 or 7 pm, be there every time, no matter what you leave undone at the office. Don’t worry; it will still be there tomorrow.
Make sure that your family spends at least thirty minutes together at the table each evening with meaningful discussions, a lot of humor, a lot of fun. Make it a family tradition.
If you want to spend excellence time with your family at dinner without one of you being wedged in the kitchen cooking, serving, and cleaning up, then bring home take-out or have someone cook and deliver. Or share kitchen chores as a family, making that part of the quality time you spend together. Get creative – it’s your life.
If you become a slave to either office worries or to household chores, they will have power over your life. If, on the other hand, you treat your personal time as the most important time of your life, you will end up refreshed, less frustrated, and less stressed out, and you will have more positive energy each time you tackle new business situations and problems.
Just you write everyday activity in your list. Schedule all of your personal activities on a â€œDaily Activities List.â€ Your daily business activities are scheduled on that same list. Compare the two schedules. Is there a clash or the potential for clash?
If so then reschedule to avoid it. And remember, a scheduled personal activity, like a scheduled business activity, is an appointment that you are committed to keep. Don’t lose view of why you work so hard – to be able to enjoy your personal life and to finance your personal dreams and goals.