Posted on Mar 16, 2009 | Comments 0
Do you think that you have pointed yourself in the wrong direction in life? Do you think you want to change it?
If you really think that you are headed in the wrong direction, and that you want to sincerely and ardently change it, you have already taken the first step!
Acknowledging that one is not doing what one should do is the first step towards bringing in change, no matter what aspect of your life you want to change.
This is a choice that you have made, by yourself, and it is now up to you to make sure that you follow it through to the end.
If you do not know how to, here are some tips for you to start off:
- Choose what aspect of your life you want to change. Why do you want this change? What do you think you will achieve, in a positive way, if you make this change? After you have thought about all this, be aware that the change you want to bring in may affect you physically, mentally, financially and socially. Are you prepared for all this? If you know someone who has made great changes in his life, not necessarily similar to yours, seek his help and advice.
- Prepare a checklist of how you will go about changing your life. Knowing all the details will help you a great deal to keep your ultimate goal in focus. Never lose sight of this most important thing, and as you go on, make marks in your checklist to know what you have accomplished so far. This will motivate you a great deal, and keep you from losing interest or concentration. [Improve Concentration]
- Make sure that the goals you have set for yourself are small and easily attainable [Setting goals]. If they are set too high, and you are not able to achieve them, you will lose interest and motivation. However, one important thing is to remember that you must be prepared to make adjustments in your plan, while at the same time sticking to most of your planned goals.
- Give it time. After all, nothing can be achieved overnight! You do have to work long and hard over the goals you have set and the plan you have created to make changes in your life, especially if you were aware that you were headed in the wrong direction. Remain patient! Slow and steady wins the race, as you must know!
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