You can transform your personality by self development. Self development helps to give accountability for your development and knowledge by assessment of your own self.
Self development helps you in improving your skills and determining future course of action.
Key ways to develop yourself:
The key way to achieve self development is to evaluate your own virtues and vices, satisfying your mind with positive thoughts and by writing down what you have learnt from your experiences.
This key will help you in enhancing leadership qualities, optimistic attitude and this will help you to maintain peace and courageous mind.
This will help you to deal with difficult situations in your life. Your perspectives become broaden with self development. Along with self development, self growth is also possible; this helps you to become more responsible person.
Another key way towards path of self development and realization are five categories in human personality:
The first category is physical self that is the development of your body and senses. You can develop this by taking balanced diet, listening to music, involving in creative activities and caring for others. For developing physical self, you must be cautious to define good and bad things.
Second category is the vigor self which diverts your energy in right direction. You can do this by controlling anger, agitation and nervousness.
Third category is the rational self; this will enable you to find the difference between knowledge and power. You can develop this, by reading literatures and biographies of dignified people. This will reflect on your actions and behavior.
Fourth category is the psychological self; this category will enable you to develop self control (The exertion of your own will on actions and behaviors is the self control), selfishness, stress management and tranquility of mind.
Fifth category is idyllic self; this category will involve in managing the reactions at the time of disasters and to remain happy in the stressful situations.
Transform personality by different methods and by developing different components:
The basic components for self development are self control, self knowledge, self sacrifice and self reliance. You can develop these basic components by practicing yoga therapy, meditation and by exploring real self prayers.
You can divert towards positive thoughts by eradicating the negative thoughts such as emotional worries, nervousness, hatred towards others and feeling shy. You can develop positive thoughts such as charity, selfishness and spiritual thoughts.
In your self-development, evaluating your own individuality plays a crucial role. You can evaluate yourself by evaluating your failures and successes. You can do this by your beliefs, attitudes, habits and ideas.
You can resist change by self concept which consists of firmness and steadiness of mind. You can maintain stability in your personality by resisting change.
The long lasting process is self-growth and self-healing. In order to continue your success, you should let up on the processes. Instead of this process it is better to practice holistic practices such as guided relaxation, yoga, meditation techniques and others.