Posted on Jul 10, 2008 | Comments 0
What do you usually do when someone is critically rude to you? Most of you can feel both hurt and angry on them.
No matter, where you are in the course of your day, you can find rude people every where today in your workplace, grocery stores, restaurants and at times right in your home.
So, it is rather tough task for any one to deal with rude people and it can become more difficult for you, if you come across at least one in a day.
However, donâ€™t worry about this situation; here are certain strategies, which can make your job to deal with rude people much easy for you.
Win their hearts with your kindness!
Whenever you come across any rude people, who just seem like making your life miserable for you, try to treat them with utmost kindness. Make the other person to realize your kindness towards him and give that person something to think about you.
Since, the other person who is rude to you always expects you to react with anger and frustration, if you treat them with your warmth and love, then it might change the way of thinking in their mind.
Try to look beyond the personâ€™s outward behavior!
Try to know the reason behind the other personâ€™s rude behavior. At some point or other in our life, it is quite common for every one of us to behave in a rude manner. This can be due to any reason; it can be your worries or anxiety which has made you to behave in such a way. So, here the point to consider is not to take any personâ€™s rude behavior personally.
Treat them like your friend!
Always try to speak to the person, who was rude to you, in a friendly manner. Talk to them as politely as you can and treat them like your friend and answer them with a gentle smile.
Express your feelings!
If the person who was rude to you, is your family member or friend, then try to be honest and try to express your feelings. Let the other person know that their rude comments hurt your feelings. In most of the cases, the rude person doesnâ€™t realize his\her actions. But, bringing the fact to his\her attention can make the person to take a closer look at her\himself.
Avoid being rude to them!
When anyone hurts you with his\her rude actions, it is not necessary that even you should behave in the same manner. When you treat them with respect, then there will be chance for them to compromise and even they try to accept their mistake. So, behave in a respectful manner and try to encourage others behave in the same way.
Never feel bad when someone hurts you badly, try to follow these strategies to feel much better. However, it is quite difficult to follow these strategies in real life. But once if you get habituated to it, then you will become most respectful and successful person in this world.
Posted in: Self Improvement