Posted on Feb 08, 2008 | Comments 0
Self improvement is one of the very important processes in your life and this is also the continuous process.
As you grow up physically, you should also develop your inner self. Self improvement is a learning procedure.
By taking the necessary steps with knowledge and skills you can heal your body and mind and can develop yourself.
You can develop more by yourself, when you are responsive to your potential.
To achieve full potential and to improve behavior, you should make necessary changes. You can make necessary modification with the ability which is present in you.
Childhood role in lowering self esteem:
It is very important to develop and deal with self esteem if you have the desire for self improvement. In learning how to be free from personal limitations and imperfections, the important factor is self esteem.
Childhood also plays an important role in maintaining self esteem. Your childhood activities and the response of your parents for your activities will effects your self esteem.
For your activities, sometimes the parents will use the phrases such as “you always misbehave” or “your classmate is better than you”. These phrases are simple but this gradually can result complicated situations.
As the stage of your life is now in the developing state you think that these phrases will make you think that you are really like that. Hence this will make your self esteem become lower.
In such a situation of your lower self esteem, if you achieve something great then this will improve your self confidence. This confidence will give you a high self esteem. You can increase your self esteem with efficiency and competency in the work you do.
For developing yourself, you can develop self- esteem, efficiency or self confidence as these are related to each other, one development follows the other. In the same way if one goes down, the rest follows the same.
Overcome fear for improving your self esteem:
- You cannot eliminate your fear totally but you should start with little steps to get rid of it. Along with this you should also start building hand in hand self confidence and self esteem.
- Development of your personality will never be far behind you with this combination.
- Facing the fear will equally be better when you cannot fight with it.
- Hence for self development and happiness in your life, you should overcome from fear.
Positive thinking for self development:
You can develop yourself by analyzing negative thoughts. For this you have to come to know where such negative thoughts come from. You can counter this negative thinking with your positive thinking. You can develop yourself by maintaining comprehensible and logical thinking.
You can get more changes in your life with positive thinking. You will entertain to negative thoughts, if you lose your self-confidence and doubt your ability. If you lose self confidence then you will be unhappy and lonely. Not only positive thinking, self discipline is also important for personal development.
You will have value and your dreams will come true when you respect yourself.