Feeling Too Good about Whom We Are Can Result in Over Confidence

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Personal GrowthIt is very important to have great success. We want to ensure that we have the best success that we can in life.

However, we do not want to feel too good about whom we are and what we do in life since this shows that we are over confidant and maybe a little conceded about who we are and what we do.

This is something that is not a good trait and we will want to avoid it if required.

There is nothing wrong with being proud of yourself for doing something great or feeling good about who you are.

This is a great feeling and one that everyone deserves to do in life.

We would like to make the most of what we do and who we are and we can achieve this goal by using our own personal growth and success. We can make the most of what we have and what we are as long as we are not taking it too far.

Show Off Your Achievements in a Good Way

You should not want to brag to everyone how great you are and what you have achieved all the time. You want to be able to express that you have made some great achievements in your life, but you want to do it with class.

If you seem to over bearing and too pushy about your goals and great achievements, you may in fact be setting yourself up for a big fall.

You may be intimidating people that you are close to and in the end, you may lose friendships and important relationships that you hold close to you. You will want to make sure that you are able to show off these great things but in a good way.

Don’t Act Too Much Like Show Off

There are so many great things that you can do to grow as a person. You will want to show people that you can be great and also feel good about yourself without acting too much like a show off.

You want to feel good and you do not want to lose that feeling for any reason. Once you have the feelings of being proud and feeling good about whom you are, you will see that you can make your dreams and goals come true later on down the road.

You should remember the times that you feel good about who you are and what you are doing. You will want to always have these positive feelings there in the back of your mind.

However, you will offend people by too much condescending and too much overbearing about the goals and dreams that you have set for your life. Feeling too good can quickly come to an end and you will not feel so great afterwards.

Don’t Measure Your Success with Money or Things

It is important to have lot of success in your life. You do not have to measure this success with money or things; you can measure it with the amount of personal growth you have achieved.

You will also be able to use your family and friends, as achievements and this will make you feel good about who you are and what you are doing in life. You will want to cherish the good times that you have and never feel bad about what you do.

The good feelings that you have will make the bad feelings disappear. There is no shame in feel confident as long as you know how to handle it and how to use it to your advantage and not against you.

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  1. Kristian Hahndel ` says:

    Hey interesting post,
    I been personally involved in success conditioning and life coaching for many years and i also make this distinction between being self confident and being arrogant. I think the one thing that we all must avoid throughout our journey towards success is arrogance. It is my belief that arrogance is bragging, or putting people below oneself. This is not true success as serving others should be your primary goal. self confidence is having the strength to belive in oneself and the awareness to see that positive things we occur in the future. I think it is absolutely neccessary to have self confidence but to control it as your ego might get fueled. One other point i think should be said is that sometimes its good to have contrast. You obviously are not going to be confident about everything in your life or every aspect. Those aspects that you are not internally confident in provide you with the awareness of what it is you want and where exactly you currently are (the gap if you wish). It is not a bad thing if your not always confident about certain things or certain situations. I think this post can serve alot of people, maybe you can post some more information on how we can all differentiate between confidence and ego, and some methods on how to overcome ego.
    I love to share my own personal experiences with you in my own personal blog over here if your interested.
    best regards
    Kristian Hahndel

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