Children are like a handful of mud and can be molded in any shape like the guardian wishes to. To some extent this proverb is correct, but in the present generation the children have started making their individual choice – not necessarily to be for the bad always. However, unfortunately parents turn a deaf ear to those desires and thumb nails their own ones to make the kids a winner in the rat race. Motivation is the word – not Compulsion.
If you motivate your child in the correct way combing the needs of this world and his desires, the outcome will not only be fruitful but also let the child develop some creativity and uniqueness from his own attributes. Motivating does not mean pressurizing, comparing or creating stubbornness, but dealing the child in a very tender and delicate way as these will be his formation years.
How do you enliven your kids to stimulate themselves?
Here are a handful tips to strengthen you to inspire them into self-motivation.
Don’t let your anxiety drive them to gain motivation
You might be very anxious for your child that is quite natural but that does not mean that you will transfer your tensions into the child to make him feel motivated. That will surely bring adverse effects of fear, anxiety and loss of confidence.
Instead give the child to settle or to oppose and motivate him through the right path with ease. Do not nag or force for any commitment, but motivate him with positive words that might sound attractive to him.
The merely method to motivate is to prevent trying to motivate. Rather, work to encourage your child. How do you accomplish that? Be an inspiring soul. Crave yourself if your deportments are inspiring or controlling.
Allow your child to assemble his options—and look for the moments
Allow your child to have his exquisites. First understand what he wants and the thing he is fond of. Then mould the child with inspiration that will be of acceptance at his level of intellect.
Listen to him and help him to self motivate
This is one of the best ways to interact with a child and encourage him Listen to what he has to say and collect your points that will help the child to understand the situation in a realistic way and get motivated. Make sure you don’t end of comparing or getting overboard while doing this. Just subtlety see to this that whatever he speaks out becomes the strengthening word for him.
Photo Credit By: press4kids.com