Posted on Jun 26, 2014 | Comments 0
Acceptance and loneliness are acronyms to each other. In life, everybody faces loneliness once or may be many times. You feel lonely when you fail to receive acceptance from your preferred group, family or friends and in such situations, you don’t feel fit in the society or surroundings.
Loneliness at a certain point to a certain limit is acceptable but when it keeps on longing, it can lead to many psychological problems like depression, schizophrenia, multiple personality disorders etc. But nothing to get so scared as there are plenty ways of helping yourself in such a situation. All you need is a bit of hope that you will be fine shortly and have faith in your abilities.
Listen to music that brings in hope
Music can change everything. Every facet can be changed. Avoid listening to slow and depressing music and try the one which brings in self motivation and enthusiasm. Attend the musical concerts in your town, may be all alone; but see how divine you feel at the end!
Interact with others
Reunite with your old group. Get in contact with old friends and make new ones. Friends are the ones who can definitely replace your sadness with happiness.
Visit new destinations with closed ones
Go out on a trip and explore the world. See all those beautiful places worth living for. Snow-capped mountains, crystal clear rivers, luscious greenery, it will make you realize what you had been missing.
Be hopeful. See around yourself, the world where you live in. Do not get carried away by your emotions. Be happy because rejections will come your way but you must always learn from them. Think about positive outcomes. Explore yourself and love what you are and the way you are and then only will the doors of positivity open.
Talk to yourself
This is the best activity. Often people can’t stand their own reflection but you aren’t one of them. So stand in front of the mirror and talk about why you are lonely? What is it that is making you feel lonely? You might cry but let it out. Tell yourself that you will come out of the pit and reach your destination.
Live your each day to the fullest
This is an absolutely amazing technique. Nobody knows how death comes to a person so why to panic about it and keep getting scared? Do what you wanted to do. Follow your passion. Live like you have never lived ever before, as if it’s your first day on earth.
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