7 Essential Signs of an Impending Breakup

A romantic relationship is a beautiful bond between a man and a woman and is often an exciting time when two people come together to celebrate love and togetherness.Inspite of this, it won’t be wrong to say that such relationships can often be sensitive and fragile. There often comes a time when the two people involved in a relationship tend to ignore the signs of breaking up and tend to carry on with their fake negligence of the same.

Hanging onto a fizzling relationship is of absolutely no use and it is a better idea to break it up sooner to avoid facing a bigger heart ache. The following are the 7 essential signs of an impending breakup which you mustn’t ignore:

essential signs of an impending breakupThe Charm is no more there

One of the first signs of a pending break up is when the charm is no longer there.  The small things you loved about him/her do not attract you anymore.  You begin to feel that there are hardly any things that seem interesting to you about him/her anymore.

Spending Time Together Seems Like a Chore

When you are heading towards a break up, then an easy way to detect is when spending time together begins to feel like a task or a chore rather than something you look forward to.

You Start Arguing Over Little matters

When couples start fighting or arguing over small issues and matters on a regular basis, then this could be a clear sign that the pink period of the relationship is over and a breakup might be the only solution ahead.

Sex is no Longer Exciting

When sex begins to feel dull and no longer exciting, then you must know that you might be headed to splitsville soon.  Where there is no spark left in making love and the process seems like a chore, then love might have gone out of you and it’s better to break things up rather than continuing.

Adjustability and Compromises Take a Back Seat

When adjusting and compromising for each other takes a back seat, then this too could be a sign of an impending breakup.  When you were madly in love with each other, then compromising may seem to be a good prospect but when cracks start appearing in the relationship, even the idea of adjusting might trouble you.

Long Phone Conversation Become Smaller

Gone are the times when you used to talk on the phone for hours. If the conversations last only for a few minutes now, then this too might be a sign of love vanishing from between you and your partner.

Commitment Phobia Kicks in

Once upon a time you might have felt the need to marry your boyfriend/girlfriend but now commitment phobia kicks in and you feel a cringing sensation when the word ‘marriage’ is mentioned. This is a way to know that you are both headed towards a breakup which has been pending for a while now.


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