Posted on Feb 21, 2011 | Comments 0
When you want to maintain strong bond of relationship with your loved one or with your favorite friend, it is very important for you to compromise in certain aspects. More often, compromise hurts everyone involved in it. In business relationships, it can be easy for you to compromise, but when it comes to personal relationships, it brings tears very often.
Compromise is not that easy task as it seems. For those who are already married, compromise sounds pretty good on paper, but if both of you are stubborn, it is quite difficult for you to compromise.
But, if you really want to maintain strong personal relationships, at sometime or other it is very important for you to compromise on certain aspects. So, here are a few tips for you to compromise without resentment or anger.
Analyze the source of conflict
When you face conflicts in your relationship, talk with your spouse about the issue that is responsible for conflicts. Start a discussion about an agreeable solution to the problem. Donâ€™t make the situation too complicated. Discuss calmly and find out perfect solution for your problem.
Listen to your partner
Shouting or ignoring your spouse certainly makes the argument or situation more intense and at times it can lead to undesired circumstances or breakup in relationship. So, if you donâ€™t want this to happen in your relationship, try to listen to your partner and think from their point of view to identify the problem. Pay attention to what they want to convey and keep an open mind to think about their opinions.
Admit if you are wrong
If you feel that you are wrong, there is nothing wrong or to feel ashamed of yourself if you admit your mistakes. In fact, admitting your mistakes can help you to prove yourself as better person. Even, in the next disagreement your spouse can certainly return the favor. So, try to admit your mistakes to compromise in your relationship without any resentment.
Try to express yourself politely instead of shouting or throwing things. Shouting can make the situation more intense. Even, shouting does not change the facts. So, donâ€™t shout when you want to express your feelings. If your spouse is shouting at you, remain calm and wait for right time to express yourself in much better way and let your spouse know that you are disappointed with the behavior.
Be honest and reasonable
Donâ€™t prolong the discussion or argument if you feel that it is mindless to discuss. Avoid discussion on unnecessary aspects of your life and try to be reasonable and honest to your heart while discussing things with your partner.
Finally, if you donâ€™t want to lose your loved one, compromise is the only way to maintain strong bond. So, donâ€™t feel ashamed or bad to compromise with your loved one. Implement these simple ways to compromise and make your relationship successful.
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