Posted on Jul 28, 2006 | Comments 0
Is love exists anymore? Listening to many stories of love and relationships, together with the breakdowns make us disbelieve. The different stories including love that cause death, love that cause harm, and types of loves.
Bonnie and Clyde
When we think of the story of Bonnie and Clyde, we often wonder what bonded them together. Until their death, the couple remained loyal to each other in relationship and love. Yet, their love was clearly misplaced.
The love built on desire lead to death as the two joined in criminal activities that caused harm and death in the end of the relationship. The story of Bonnie and Clyde is a definite example of compatibility, yet it exemplifies the variation between categorical love and superficial love, yet understands the mechanism that makes unconditional and dying love.
Both Bonnie and Clyde originate from poverty-stricken homes. The two bored with bad relationships teamed up and acting out of violence to commit acts of vigilante at the same time the acts of crime. Throughout their involvement, the two remained faithful and loyal to each other, and often exemplified the true meaning of love, since it took death to separate the two. While the two had the human mechanism originated to compose love, the two also had unsafe intentions of the type of relationship they would join.
While Bonnie and Clyde relationships were outdated, there are couples today that join in relationships with good intentions, but harmful habits and thinking that leads to disaster.
Examples of Harmful Relationships
Abroad the world, captured in papers, media, et cetera, examples of harmful relationships are visual in case studies. An example of a harmful relationship is visual in the following caption. It initiated with the seemingly perfect relationship, which risen to the seemingly perfect family.
The customary family composed of father, mother, and children. The father worked every day in a mental health environment, while the mother worked at home and outside the home. The father later murdered made the public speculate how such a apparently perfect family arrangement turned sour.
It turned out that the father while appearing loving in the public and keeping a low profile was illustrating violence and abusive behaviors at home. Thus, the mother tired and feed up with the arrangement addressed the issue, which turned into a physical act of murder.
Monitoring and Listening
When considering relationships it makes feel to take your time while monitoring closely to the different behaviors the mate presents. Monitoring and listening, while hearing can help you to ascertain what the person has to offer you.
A background check could never hurt, since too many relationships today twist sour, or else the partner finds out the hard way that the mate has a haunting past. The poignant past may include adulterous, promiscuous, or criminal behaviors.
Personally, prior to committing to a relationship, I recommend joining in activities, entertainment, communication, et cetera. After a few months you will perceive how you potential mate reacts to social engagements, social environment, and so forth. Still, once you have an overview of the personâ€™s response to your expectations you will need to take it slow before permanently committing self to an ongoing relationship.
You may want to learn the steps to protecting yourself from failed relationships, in addition to how to maintain a productive relationship. Learning is growing and can help you make better choices in life, including in love and relationships.
As you can see, human mechanisms and elements that compose love were missing in this family, because visibly the man had no respect for his family arrangement, or members.
Regrettably, not every book has a cover that exposes the reality of the story. Likewise, every person does not always present the genuineness of the person that helps the mate see the outlook of the relationship.
A person can suffer years with another individual and never notice flaws that could lead to harm, until the day arrives. Others leave trails that demonstrate potential harm, but the partner consumed in life, and meeting expectations fail to see the traits and evidence trailing all through the relationship.
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