Posted on Apr 22, 2014 | Comments 0
After separation every individual suffers several mental blocks that restrict him from improving his next marriage. But that certainly does not mean there are no ways to deal with marriage after separation. Here are some of the points that one can work on for a successful marriage after separation.
1.Power of hearing
For a good communication between two individuals it is important to talk it out but it is equally important to hear. If there is a communication gap that is widening then one must review his or her behavior and must try to hear out the other person to know exactly what the problem areas are. Empathy is a quality that can make you feel comfortable in a relationship.
This quality is also helpful in improving the understanding level between couples. The feeling of not being heard is one of the major reasons behind separation. It has to be taken into account that everyone likes to be heard.
2. Stop blame game
Accepting a mistake is equally important for the overall acceptance of an individual in a relationship. If blame is hindering the communication then one must review and analyze his or her behavior and take responsibility for their mistakes.
3. Making up and moving forward
It is of utmost importance that couples know how to make up after communication gap widens. Whenever there is a fight it is not necessary to find out who was at fault but it is very important to make up for all the fighting and move forward.
Some couples tend to suppress their anger and this is later converted into a sort of cold war between them. This can be avoided by sheer communication and making up and accepting the situation.
4. Stop asking unnecessary questions
It is inevitable to question the suitability and compatibility between two individuals. After every fight or communication problem an individual doubts his choice of person.
These questions are inevitable but one must make it a practice to not jump to such conclusions. It helps a great deal if these redundant questions are kept at bay during the problematic periods.
Being clear about the methods and ways of each individual in a marriage is very important. Transparency breeds trust among couples and trust begets loyalty. If a person is loyal and honest about his or her feelings the other person does not spend time on checking for his sincerity.
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