Posted on Apr 27, 2006 | Comments 0
Almost every love story has the probable to begin as if it were a fairy tale. â€œOnce upon a time, two people fell in love ardently and their love was unlike any others before theirs.â€
Relationship beginnings are wonderful and wedding, honeymoon and the exciting first year of marriage can bring â€˜rebirthâ€™ to the relationship. Once a couple begins to grow and their lives change with jobs, children, social activities and other commitments, the love and romance becomes more difficult to attend to.
Sometimes it seems like that love and romance are lost on the whole. This destiny is not inescapable if you want to renew the passion or simply bring it to a new level by becoming a hopeless romantic.
Igniting The Passion In Your Relationship
When you want to ignite the passion in your relationship but you arenâ€™t sure what you need to do, the best place to begin is at the beginning. Think about the things that you used to do for your partner at the beginning of your relationship.
Donâ€™t worry, if you donâ€™t remember or never tried to be a true romantic. Itâ€™s not difficult and once you begin you will find that you will get your own new ideas after a while.
Most new relationships or new beginnings depend upon the â€˜littleâ€™ things to show love and affection. Be sure to remember special â€˜coupleâ€™ days like Valentineâ€™s Day, Anniversaries and if possible, even the date you met.
In order to celebrate your feelings for your partner, be sure to send a meaningful gift or just a dozen roses and a box of chocolates. Women can do exactly the same thing for men here. Not many men can resist candy.
You may not consider yourself to be a writer, but one of the most touching ways to spark romance is writing your partner a long love letter with your thoughts about how you feel for the other person.
Consider making lists about what you love the most about your partner, if you arenâ€™t comfortable writing a letter. Lists can be about the things they do that makes you laugh, what they do for you that you value, how beautiful or handsome they are, how they make you feel inside, and other very personal but attentive details.
Talk Softly And Lovingly
Call your partner and talk softly and loving. Leave loving messages on their voice mail or answering machine, if he or she isnâ€™t able to answer the phone. Talk dirty when you know that he or she canâ€™t return the same conversation on the other end.
Sometimes couples feel more comfortable trying to bring romance into their relationship by giving gifts on their partner. While classics like flowers, candy and perfume or cologne are almost always successful gifts, try â€˜givingâ€™ something different.
Bring home a bottle of champagne to celebrate even the tiniest accomplishment he or she has had. Make plans to go see every romantic movie that comes to the theater during the year. Randomly send romantic and/or humorous greeting cards to his or her workplace or hide them under the bed pillows at home.
These suggestions are simply ideas to get you started in your effort to bring romance and love to a new level in your marriage. You may have your own ideas and those are most likely better than anything offered here.
You are ready to move to even more creative levels of romance, once you open the door to romance in your marriage and begin to build a base for future romance.
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