101 Ways to Build Happy, Lasting Relationships

love and relationships

Twenty years earlier, the scenario of dating and marriage was different.

In present day society, more than 50% of all marriages fail for one reason or another.

Just thinking about that makes, “commitment” seem scary. It seems that people quit trying when relationships are faced with challenges.

Dating is more like a marathon, people instead of taking time to get to know someone at a deeper level they are trying to date as many people as possible.

For married couples, divorce is not biased. Whether the couple is married for 30 years are just 8 months, the result can be same.

Make Your Relationship a Success

The reality is that relationships, whether dating or married, are hard. Things do not always go on smoothly, clashes do occur, and to make the relationship a success, it requires 100% commitment from both parties.

Most of the times, when people break off a relationship, they feel as if they are something is missing in their life. The “spark of life” has gone, leaving one or both people feeling inadequate and unfulfilled.

Choosing Love as a Choice

On the other hand, even though the chances are not very good, but healthy, and long-lasting relationships are certainly possible and proven by many people. You are making a decision that even in the bad times you stick to the relationship by making love a choice.

Think of it like selecting a car. You pick out the make, model, year, color, and features that you believe are best for you.

You realize after driving your car for a couple of months that maybe you should have purchased a larger car, or on hot sunny days, the sunroof would have been nice, or that maybe the leather seats would have been better,.

Anyhow, it is now too late thus you opt to keep your car and make it work. It is the same as in case of marriage. Everything will be not perfect and you will major obstacles that are to be overcome but you have made your decision and now you opt to make it work.

There are many things that can help you make your relationship into an wonderful relationship. Remember, little steps taken every day will add up to big successes.



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