Posted on Aug 22, 2011 | Comments 0
Do you know someone who never has something good to say about anything or anybody? For negative people, nothing seems to be right and appropriate. They always seem to be complaining about others or about themselves. Knowing how to deal with negative people is very important to get along with them.
It will be more uncomfortable and tough task, particularly if you are surrounded with such personalities at your workplace.
Overtime, these negative people can really bring you down and possibly disturb your wonderful career.
However, sometimes it is quite impossible for you to avoid negative personalities at your work and you may be forced to deal with them on a regular basis.
So, what will you do to reduce their impact on your life? Here are few ways that help you in dealing with negative people in your life, particularly at your workplace.
How to deal with negative people in response to rude remarks?
When you say positive things to negative people, probably it will make them at least think about what you said. Try to make them act positively because positive thinking will result into positive aspects only.
Use words that sound positive such as excellent, fantastic and amazing. If you sound positive, happy and excited, it will rub positivity on negative people and there is a chance that they will change their negative attitude.
Don’t give them advice
Some times, your co-workers just want to complain their problems to a friendly listening ear.
It doesn’t mean they need your advice or assistance. Listen, but set your limits so that your co-worker doesn’t overstay or over talk with you.
Limit your time with them
Avoid spending a lot of time with a negative co-worker because long-term conversations with negative people sap your energy and positive outlook. If you are forced, through your role in company, to work with negative people, try to set your limits.
Don’t involve yourself into any negative discussion. Tell to your negative co-worker that you prefer to take your job in more positive way. Don’t provide any sympathetic audience for their negative attitude.
Talk something positive about them
Not every day, but at least sometimes, say something positive. When you are involved in work with them, try to tell something positive about them. Gradually, this small help from your side will start to help them to think positively and overtime the can develop positive thoughts in their mind.
Be enthusiastic and concentrate on your own energy
Try to influence your positivity on them but don’t act to their negative thoughts or words. If you can be higher in your energy, it will help you to stay positive always, even if you are surrounded with negative people.
Remember these basic strategies will help you in getting to know how to deal with negative people at your workplace and also in being successful with more warmth and positivity.
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