Posted on Feb 08, 2007 | Comments 0
We are prone to anger outbursts when we have a grandiosity personality type.
A person with grandiosity thinking may believe that he or she was centered out from everyone else when he or she does not get his or her way.
People with grandiosity attitudes will say things like that was a miserable idea since those people are stupid anyway.
A person of this nature may believe that other people would have behaved the way that they did in a similar situation.
Traits Of Grandiosity Personality
There are many traits to grandiosity that are disturbing and when a person has a disturbed mind, he or she is prone to anger. This type of person will have a hard time dealing with stressors and stress and will often act out on emotions when they feel threatened.
This means they are prone to assaulting others intellect, attacking another persons mental status, cursing at the problem, and even acting out violently when they are mad. This type takes us to a whole knew level of understanding anger, since a mental illness is often underlying the emotions.
A person of this magnitude of anger is known as a narcissistic personality type. Paranoid schizophrenias, histrionic personality types and a few other have a grandiosity personality underlying diagnose. Anger management may or may not work when we see that a person is angry due to a mental illness.
Most histrionic personality types are firm in their way of thinking, so more extensive therapy is needed to deal with this type. If you experienced anger outbursts, you realize that you feel remorse after the interruption takes place.
On the other hand, remorse is not in the picture if you have a histrionic or paranoid personality. A person has to have a sense of remorse to become subject to recovery in anger management.
Although the psychotherapist may find a resolve, it will be minimal. Unfortunately, in some cases of this type of anger, there is no resolve and the patient may eventually destroy another personâ€™s life.
Uncontrolled anger includes:
- Assaulting mentally
- Verbally assault
- Even murder
Now we are looking at a serious problem since anyone is at risk of being subjected to these types of personality.
A more common form of anger is a mild name calling, such as you were acting like a jerk. Alternatively, damn why did you do that? Some of us might even say why you centered me out as a target to anger. The person will raise the voice aggressively, and often walk away when the person does not reply as he or she intended.
Anger Rooted From Jealousy
There are forms of anger that can be dealt with and some are rooted from jealousy. Well, the world is acting out of accordance to manâ€™s beliefs most of the time so in a lot of cases there is just cause. The problem is dealing with it so that it does not get the best of you.
For instance if you are married and suspect that your spouse is having an affair you might confront this person rather than accusing. Find out the details before you blow up and cause a commotion. If the person is cheating then you have two options.
You can hire a lawyer and find a more suitable, trusting mate or you can forgive the persons infidelity and move on. I would choose the former since cheaters are liars and thieves trying to get away with something, therefore the person are not trustworthy in most cases.
See the reasoning behind this? Of course, it is going to hurt, but in the end, you will see that you made a good selection. If you decide to stay with the person, remember your forgave so do not bring up failures when another problem occurs.
Failure is success flipped over and if you review failure in a positive light, you problems will decrease as you move forward in life. You will need help if you have a grandiosity personality, since the mountains are more difficulty for you to climb. Do not be a failure control your anger before it controls your life.
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